Counselling Service

 

Family Mediation Service

 

The following schemes have been set up by Jesus Fellowship Community Trust to provide a contribution towards counselling costs for past and present members of Jesus Fellowship Church.

The Schemes can be accessed by contacting the relevant email addresses below.  You can ask someone to do this on your behalf if you would prefer.  You will then be emailed a referral letter, to be given to your chosen counsellor, and a covering email explaining how the payments are made.

 

 

 

The Counselling Scheme (for people who spent their childhood within the church/community) counsellingscheme@gmail.com

Administered by:  Lesley Cutts, Esther Sooriah and Ruth Barber

 

The Adult Counselling Scheme (for past or present adult members of the church/community) adultcounsellingscheme@gmail.com

Administered by:  Colin Ridley, Helen Stilliard and Ruth Barber


 

The Administrators can give their assurance that confidentiality is of the utmost importance.   Therapists are asked to refer to clients only by the code given on the referral letter, and on the Scheme’s log system users are recorded by that code number.  No-one outside of the individual Scheme administrators will know that you have accessed this Scheme or have access to the computerised records. 

They will never request any details or information from a therapist and will respect their code of ethics.

What is Family Mediation?

This service is available to any family of whom at
least one was a member of the Jesus Fellowship Community Trust.

 

Family mediation is a voluntary process, where a trained mediator facilitates a structured conversation between two or more
members of the family to resolve outstanding conflicts or disagreements.

The mediator is impartial, seeking to enable the parties to articulate their interests and needs to each other, identify mutual needs and interests where possible, and guide the parties to agreements that work for both.

Mediation is highly effective where the parties seek to maintain an ongoing relationship. 

The Mediation Process

The mediator would meet all the parties separately for around 1 hour to discuss the issues and concerns, conduct the necessary safeguarding checks and ensure mediation was the appropriate process for the family, with signposting to other services if needed.

The joint face to face session with all parties would last approximately 2 hours, in a neutral location, and we would offer the parties a follow up session to provide time for reflection and testing out of any agreements or arrangements. Agreements made in mediation meetings are voluntary and not legally binding in anyway.

Any agreements made in mediation are the property of the parties themselves and remain confidential unless they wish to share any outcome. 

 

Access to this mediation can be
obtained in the same way as the Adult Counselling Scheme (see above).

 

You may ask for any mediation service of your choice or contact one of the mediators below.

Dr Lesley Allport (www.ladr.net)

Lesley is a highly experienced Mediation Consultant and Trainer and specialises in Family Mediation and workplace mediation. A Member of the College of Mediators and the Family Mediation Council.

Ian Hill (www.ianhillmediator.com)

Ian has provided mediation and consultancy services in a wide variety of sectors over the past 20 years and is currently the Chair/Convener of the JF Reference group. A Member of the College of Mediators.

National Family Mediation Service

0300 400 0636  

www.nfm.org.uk

Family Mediators Association  

01355 244 594

 info@thefma.co.uk

College of Mediators      

0845 658 5258 

 admin@collegeofmediators.co.uk

Listening Service

 

A Listening Service is available to give you an opportunity to explore your own story of living within the New Creation Christian Community in a safe and non-judgmental environment. 

This is a one-off listening session but with signposting to further opportunities if required.

The priority is YOU as the storyteller and care will be taken not to cause further damage.

This service is open to members and ex-members of the Jesus Fellowship Community Trust and their dependents.

Manna House can provide non-Christian counsellors on request.

This service is being run by the Manna House Counselling Service.

Contact:  MHCSListening@gmail.com or 07746549983

Crisis Triage

 

This is available for helping claimants that are experiencing any highly disruptive emotional, mental and/or physical stressor(s) that can be brought on by applying for Redress.

Please contact Tim Marks 

Contact:  tim@timmarkscounselling.com or 07817 465 213

Support

 

The Samaritans

Samaritans are there for anyone who’s struggling to cope and needs someone to listen without judgement or pressure. They offer listening and support to people and communities in times of need.

     N: 116 123

Victim Support

Victim Support provides the support you need to move forward If you’ve been affected by crime. Their services are free, confidential and available to anyone in England and Wales, regardless of whether the crime has been reported or how long ago it happened. 

N: 0808 168 9111

NAPAC

The National Association for People Abused in Childhood offers support to adult survivors of all types of childhood abuse, including physical, sexual, emotional abuse or neglect.

N: 08088 010 331

One in Four

One in Four specializes in supporting survivors of sexual violence and abuse, and particularly survivors of child sexual abuse and trauma.

N: 02086 972 112

Mind

Mind provide advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem. 

N: 02085 192 122

The Survivors Trust

The Survivors Trust is an umbrella organisation with 129 member organisations based in the UK and Ireland which provide specialist support for women, men and children who have survived rape, sexual violence or childhood sexual abuse.

N: 08088 010 818

BACP

The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy provide a directory of therapists you can narrow down by location.

N: 01455 883 300

Rights of Women

Rights of Women provide a free handbook for Adult (Men & Women) survivors of sexual violence on how to take your claim to court.

N: 02072 516 575

Rape Crisis

Rape Crisis England & Wales (RCEW) is a feminist organisation that supports the work of Rape Crisis Centres across England and Wales. They provide frontline specialist, independent and confidential services for women and girls of all ages who've experienced any form of sexual violence, at any time in their lives.

N: 08088 029 999

Voices for Victims & Witnesses

Voice is a free, confidential support service for victims and witnesses of crime.

N: 03003 031 965

Voiceability

Voiceability provide a community advocate for those that have a mental health illness, have autism, visual or hearing impairments. A community advocate can help with many things including helping you fill out a claimant form.

N: 01604 592 702

MACSAS

Minister and Clergy Sexual Abuse Survivors supports women and men who have been sexually abused, as children or adults, by ministers, clergy or others under the guise of the Church. They support both Survivors who have remained within their Christian communities and those who have left.~

N: 08088 010 340

JFRedress is a redress scheme offered by the Jesus Fellowship Community Trust.